A Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives #7

We are at the midpoint of the Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives.

Are you feeling the breeze?  Is it working for you?

Maybe what we all need is a fresh perspective on things.  Some way to shake us out of the relentless mishegas (Yiddish for craziness) we call life.  Besides being better for your skin, letting go and devoting three minutes to focusing upon something beautiful and powerful, like a midsummer sunrise, will also center you, get your energy and endorphins flowing.  Hey listen, how could you not want to do that?

It will stop the frenzy which is the next step in the plan.  Perhaps this step should have been the first one.  But if you are as distracted and overcaffeinated as I am, you will probably skip around doing these steps which I have included for you here:

1 Get over yourself

2 Get off the grid

3 Get local

4 Bring on color

5 Avoid vampires

6 Read like a writer

Go ahead.  All of you schwer arbeiters (Yiddish for hard working people like you).  Take three minutes to turn inwardly, flick the chattering demons off your shoulder, and embrace the joy of a simple and beautiful image.  This step is for you.

7 Stop the frenzy

So you need an image, maybe?  Here’s a silver sunrise on Rockaway Beach from my inner gallery.

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A Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives #6

photo by MichaelKPhoto

A friend of mine has a repertoire of dinner questions that never fail to stir up animated conversations among his guests.  This is an example of one:

Do you want happiness or do you want pleasure?

I am told that happiness is a state of mind that is influenced by many things ranging from your relationships with others, with religion, with your aspirations to your genetic makeup.  Some factors are within your control, some are not.

Pleasure is far more intriguing to me.  A brief but blissful reaction:  30 seconds to an hour or two.  This is something you can create for yourself.

Happiness and her sidekick, Pleasure

Happiness is a lifelong journey filled with peaks, valleys and all kinds of pitfalls and pitstops in between.  While you are en route to your happiness, it is so important to take a moment to discover your own sources of pleasure in unexpected ways and in unexpected places.

To inspire you pleasure seekers, I have put together a Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives.  For those of you just joining us, here are steps 1 to 5:

1 Get over yourself

2 Get off the grid

3 Get local

4 Bring on color

5 Avoid vampires

Which brings us to today’s step.

#6 Read like a writer

I am forever doomed to be one of those people who read, rereads, questions, and rewrites everything on a page.  Determined to inhabit the creative moment of the author I am reading, so often wishing I had penned those sentences, this habit of mine has opened worlds not so ready to yield their secrets to the casual eye.

Do you want to be a better writer?  Read better writers.

Consider yourself a creative, not a consumer.  Big difference.  A restless creative will read to improve her craft, a consumer will read to be entertained.

A funny thing happens when you read like a writer.  You take pleasure in being a writer in everything you do.

What do I mean by that?

Being a writer in every moment is appreciating the stories that unfold before you.  The worlds behind the words, the interrupted narratives of people on their way to happiness.

Here’s an glimpse into a unique world by a writer of rare and uncensored skill:

“Oh Archie, you are funny,” said Maureen sadly, for she had always fancied Archie a bit but never more than a bit because of this strange way he had about him, always talking to Pakistanis and Caribbeans like he didn’t even notice and now he’d gone and married one and hadn’t even thought it worth mentioning what colour she was until the office dinner when she turned up black as anything and Maureen almost choked on her prawn cocktail.

This amazing rattling interior monologue bumbles on and on fueled by Maureen’s  peevish thoughts;  you can almost picture her frowning, distractedly folding her arms while gazing at him.  It is from Zadie Smith’s novel, White Teeth.

Take pleasure in the journey.

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A Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives #5

photo by Larry Lars

Beware of vampires.  Especially vampires who prey on restless creatives like you.

Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with someone that left you feeling completely drained with an overwhelming desire to bang your head on the wall and scream?  That is usually what happens when you have been bitten by one of these vampires.

As a “silver stake” to use against these dark creatures, here is step 5 from a Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives.

In case you missed the first 4 steps, they are:

1 Get over yourself

2 Get off the grid

3 Get local

4 Bring on color

OK all you night owls, this step is for you.

5 Avoid vampires

Are there people in your life that drain your creative juices, your lifeblood, your kishkes?

These are vampires that you should avoid with a vengeance!  Here are some of the most common types to be on your guard against and the “silver stake” you can use against them.

Madame Motormouth: This vampire has the unusual ability to never take a breath so you are trapped listening.

Here’s what you do:  Suddenly, make a big deal about pulling out your phone and say, “Hello, is everything OK?”  Then apologize to Madame and tell her something has come up that you must take care of immediately.  Look concerned.

Whine Steward: This vampire is merciless,  not interested in solving the problem;  he just wants to keep you captive and vent.

Here’s what you do:  Put your hand on his arm in sympathy and say,  “How you must suffer!  I hate to leave but I’m sure you have a great solution.  Ciao!”

Chainsaw Fiend: With this vampire you have to beware of sharp blades.  She will cut you down in a heartbeat to build herself up.

Here’s what you do:  Run away from her as fast you can.  If you are socially or physically trapped, do not give her the hurt or horrified look she is expecting.  Imagine what she would look like with a tail, then grin.

Bossy Flossy: This is the Know-It-All vampire that loves to tell you and the rest of the world what to do.

Here’s what you do:  It is futile to tell her you don’t need her advice so the best thing to do is to say,  “That is great advice!  I will certainly give it a shot the next time I find myself in this situation.”  She probably means well and the acknowledgment will stop her momentarily giving you just enough time to look at your watch, exclaim, “Look at the time!  I have to go.” and leave.

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A Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives #4

Are…you…as…tired…as…me?

Of course.  If you are working hard, playing hard, or, just breathing – you are.

Let’s face it, even Wonder Woman has those pillow clutching I-don’t-want-to-get-out-of-bed days.  If my role model can’t get herself going, imagine how difficult it is for the rest of us!  And that is why I have put together this Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives – thanks to all of you who have sent me suggestions.

In case you missed the first steps, here they are:

1 Get over yourself

2 Get off the grid

3 Get local

For my fellow executive directors, artspies, momspies and nonprofit knitters – and Amazons of all kinds, here is the next step:

4 Bring on color

Startle your senses by surrounding yourself with bright colors – a red coffee cup or a green apple.  Vibrant colors can give you a much needed energy boost.  Cool tones such as green, blue, indigo and violet are calming and warm colors such as red, orange and yellow are energizing.

Go ahead, treat yourself to some visual adrenaline and brighten your day.

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A Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives #3

Do you find it difficult to disconnect?

It takes me a couple of days to let go.  Why I have to work so hard to relax is beyond me but thanks to all of you, I am happy to share Step #3 of my Twelve Step Plan for Restless Creatives.  This Plan is for you who work hard and are passionate about what you do.  There is this fabulous quote by Leo Tolstoy that opens Part One of The Networked Nonprofit by Beth Kanter and Allison Fine, two creative social media thinkers, which I want to share with you.

“Everyone thinks about changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself”

I just got the book and am so thrilled that Beth and Allison have provided a “Google map”  for nonprofits to navigate their way into a new and highly networked world.  More on this book to come!  Just do yourself a big favor and get a copy for yourself.

Back to Tolstoy.

This Plan is to help you change yourself into a relaxed and rested version of yourself  so you can This is why it is so important for you to calm down!

I am so grateful for the suggestions you have sent me and will be writing them up for you  every Wednesday.

In case you missed them, here are Steps 1 & 2

1 Get over yourself

2 Get off the grid

And today we have -

3.  Get local

Slide your feet into those flip flops and stroll down the boardwalk to Rockaway Taco.

Check out the used surfboards with a fish taco in your hand.  Somehow you will feel a strong desire to wear one of those tank shirts that say, “Eat, Sleep, Surf” and watch the tide roll in.  I have been intrigued by the new patterns I have been seeing in board shorts.

“You got to take in a wave in clutch shorts, dude.”  I overheard this fashion tip from a bunch of surfers so it must be true.

Lose yourself in a different world.  Be a local in a different galaxy, one where the fire trucks sport rescue surf boards and the firemen look like surfer dudes.  It is hard to get aufgeregt (Yiddish for agitated) with sand between your toes.

What do you think?

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