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“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.

Albert Einstein

Oh God, that brings me right back to my days of fear in high school science and all of you know why from what I have shared with you before – I am the official disgrace to my race bad in math and science Asian student.

However, this quote is not so much about science as it is about the science of living. Here is a style note for all of you who are on your way to looking, feeling and being a Wow! personne formidable.

Insanity is bad for you soul and does nothing for your skin.

I avoid insanity because I cannot stand mediocrity.

How do I do this?

Most people do not like change Some will go to great lengths to not rock the boat. It is more comfortable to be among others in a predictable world. I like comfort just like any other human being but I have decided to become even more comfortable with being uncomfortable. Living by your gut instincts is not a walk in the park. Sometimes your gut will be the only other voice you hear.

Get used to being doubted.

Get used to hearing, “What are you nuts?”

Wear comfortable shoes.

Are you ready to change the world?

There is only one way to live and that is to live a bold life. Fearlessly and without apology. If you make a mistake, make a monumental one and be admired for your courage. The lessons learned from a huge mistake can be transformed into humungous opportunities if you listen to your inner winner gut instinct voice. Fail informatively.

Redefine what success is for you. You decide what you want to spend your energy working toward. You practice how to refrain from explaining why to the disbelievers. I suggest you answer their questions with a question and extricate yourself quickly by offering to get them a drink before the cocktail hour ends.

Enjoy being a maverick. A quirky independent. A restless creative.

You get invited to more parties.

Get more Wow!

If you want style notes and more for people who change the world, please check out:

Getting to Wow! to feel good, do good and look good

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Hoong Yee